Aura

I really should update my last post from “Pants” to “Big Pants.” They define your level of aura. The Gen Z Gen Alpha crowd likes their pants big. Not exactly MC Hammer big, but apparently the big pants trend originates from the nineteen nineties. Shhh, don’t tell the Zoomers. In…

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wild * life

The YouTube algorithm regularly serves me up a dose of embracing the season of life you’re currently in. Fifteen years ago it started as Jake: A Mom’s Opinion. Two years later it was Jake & Nake: A Mom’s Opinion. And then at some point Nake became Nate and it evolved…

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Grout

Back in early July, we discovered something fascinating about Jacob. His mind’s eye is in black and white. Not grayscale. 3D. Black and white. So are his dreams. If he concentrates really hard he can add colors to the pictures, but it takes effort and the colors evaporate if he…

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Black Friday

On Friday we ventured out to Best Buy for the infamous retail holiday. I’m fairly certain I’ve spent my entire life avoiding Best Buy, and especially avoiding it at its peak of lights, sounds, and crowds. I usually find the entire place cold, blinding, and lacking in complementary ear plugs.…

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Right on Cue

Earlier this week I was browsing through my blog, looking for inspiration for an eighth grade yearbook ad. Maybe I’ll find a brief little story that hits that sweet spot of short, funny, and not cringe, Mom. Hmmm, what’s this one called 2025?… Clearly I’m clairvoyant. Thirteen years later and…

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The Snack Pack

Business. Jacob’s always been interested in the start-up world and entrepreneurship. In elementary school he made his own “Food Fighters;” selling self-designed cards fashioned after Pokemon and miniature food with faces he made out of clay. “I made so much money off those little kids, Mom” says the former little…

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Amsterdam

After every trip, I’m possessed by the greatest of ambitions to capture the stories before they evaporate into the routine of our daily lives. And then the unpacking and Laundry Mountain and the groceries and the Zoom Life overtake me. When I collapse into my favorite corner of the couch…

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Light

Three short weeks ago, we arrived home from our latest adventure to the Netherlands. I soaked up the architecture, canals, imperfection, and flowers. The boys soaked up fragrances, football, history, and pastries. One of the best parts of our trip was visiting Majella in Voorburg and hearing the story about…

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Haze

Thursday night we went to see Cake in Paso. It was the boys’ first concert, and while they didn’t know any of the songs, even though I’ve been playing them for months, they enjoyed their meatball subs with their buddies on a picnic blanket by the light of the moon.…

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